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[ - ] thoughts on the name lewis? 2 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:44 am flag
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just a personal call, but i prefer louis. like the name. safe bet! [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:45 am flag
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ok [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:47 am flag
[ - ] weird post but my mother came in for 2 days that extended to 4 nights. fri and sat i put her in the master suite and sunday i put up on a very high blow up mattress that she seemed so happy with that she stayed monday night also using the guest bathroom. i needed really good sleep and can't sleep well in the bed with her because she drinks tons of water and goes to the bathroom 5x a night and kicks and snores. spoke to her today and she is livid. she said all "her friends" were shocked that i treated her like "a dog" on a very nice blow up mattress. i really had to get good sleep before weekend and 2 nights on the couch. she says she is never coming to visit again even though we had nanny that took care of dc the entire day. i already hate to visit her due to her 3 hour loud makeup regimen so i can't really go to the bathroom at her house nor does she want to babysit. btdt? her worst complaint was that the guest bathroom did not have enough light for her makeup and how dare i say she needed to use it during the 2 mornings i have to shower and get ready for work. nuts. 4 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:34 am flag
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^sorry long post. my mom is narcissistic bitch and thinks i am her slave. it sucks. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:35 am flag
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cut her off. i did, much happier. don't miss her bullshit one iota. life is too short, honey. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:38 am flag
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really? even if she is a narcissist, she is still your mother. i don't call any woman a bitch, but least of all my mother. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:44 am flag
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distance yourself. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:48 am flag
[ - ] s/o - so why do wohms think that sahms with young kids should have to work 24/7 and dh gets to work a 9-6 job? don't sahm deserve sleep and downtime? a lunch break? the way i see it, we both work at our respective jobs 9-6. any time outside of this is split 50/50. taking care of 2 small children (not in school ft) is just as difficult, physically and emotionally, as working outside the home. flame away. 4 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:33 am flag
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not going to flame, i agree. if you have no help (as i do) and are sahm, i would not recommend doing it with a partner who does not understand that it is a job just like his (and arguably more important) as your partner can get another job; having/caring for your children is not something that is easily replaced. but this board is infamous for mommy wars. don't get sucked into it and you'll enjoy here more. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:35 am flag
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because there is allegedly no intellectual stimulation (i am a sahm) [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:38 am flag
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op. ha. you know what, i agree there is less intellectual stimulation, but that doesn't mean we don't deserve sleep! besides, work isn't always intellectual. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:41 am flag
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i used to work in derivatives. there is no intellectual stimulation at work. and probably, my job was more intellectual stimulation than a lot of other jobs. most of my intellectual stimulation comes from reading for myself. it's akin to graduate school. you learn because you want to, not because a job requires it. what most people mean is that they miss social stimulation with an adult. they need to keep yapping and give and take with another human being on a more equal basis than, "can i have more juice, mommy?" but that doesn't mean it's intellectual. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:46 am flag
[ - ] i want to post my pics on hot or not type website. i think i'm like a 6/6.5. i'm afraid the true results will make me depressed though! 5 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:23 am flag
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are you 12? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:25 am flag
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why on earth would you ever do this or care what a bunch of random strangers have to say about a picture of you? therapy, stat! [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:27 am flag
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i am curious how i compare to the rest of the world. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:40 am flag
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some advice from a 50 year old woman: learn not to care how you compare. it is a serious waste of time. the earlier you learn this, the happier you'll be. good luck. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:40 am flag
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why do you want to kill yourself like that? i truly believe that i was a 9 at my best. most days now, i am a 6. but i am ok with that. i am not just my looks. you are not less of a human being because you are a 4 instead of a 9.5. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:47 am flag
[ - ] dh and i travel a lot for business. right when one of us gets back from a trip, he's ready to "get it on". i, however, need some time to get used to being around one another again--i don't greet him and want to rip our clothes off. he thinks that's ridiculous. what do you think? 2 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:20 am flag
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you compromise, he compromises. sometimes it happens sometimes it doesn't [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:29 am flag
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be glad that he finds you attractive. drink a glass of wine to get in the mood. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:31 am flag
[ - ] what do you think about the name frederick? 4 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:16 am flag
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love it. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:24 am flag
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kewl [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:27 am flag
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on the street where you live [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:30 am flag
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ily [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:41 am flag
[ - ] abortion = murder 6 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:15 am flag
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troll = useless [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:20 am flag
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compelling argument. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:21 am flag
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meat=murder [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:26 am flag
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this [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:32 am flag
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milk=cow abuse. did you know farmers take away newborn veals and then walk them past the mommy cow so she produces more milk while suffering? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:40 am flag
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newborn calves [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:43 am flag
[ - ] lol kim richards arrested after all her talk of being sober for 3 years. there goes that. 21 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:12 am flag
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yep sad. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:13 am flag
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for what? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:13 am flag
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being drunk and causing a disturbance at the bev hills hotel...charged on like 4 counts, including kicking an officer. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:14 am flag
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it's a disease... [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:13 am flag
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but then she should own she has a disease and not act like everyone is out to get here when they act concerned. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:17 am flag
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i'll bet rinna is secretly happy. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:13 am flag
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told you so dance [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:15 am flag
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what is that from? will and grace? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:44 am flag
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yay. she's a mess. they need to drop her from that show. she is toxic to herself and others. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:18 am flag
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+1 reality tv is not good for someone that sick- just making her worse :(. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:21 am flag
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i didn't know who she was, so googled her. jesus christ, she really hasn't aged well! she used to be gorgeous! now she just looks artificial... [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:18 am flag
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she's a washed up hag. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:25 am flag
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like this girl? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:27 am flag
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i'm not clicking on your stupid link, you psycho loser! [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:28 am flag
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i remember her when she was a kid -- i used to watch her on lots of tv shows as she was about the same age. nanny and the professor was my favorite, but i still remember her as the girl with the short leg on little house on the prairie. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:27 am flag
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i'm about the same age as kim and she looks like she could be my mother, no, make that my grandmother. she looks like hell. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:29 am flag
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+1. i used to have a dinosaur tv and then upgraded to a high def tv. my eyes! she looks like she tanned for 50 years on the surface of the sun. burn victims have better skin. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:31 am flag
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she def needs to leave the show. it isn't good for her or her family. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:27 am flag
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so many real housewives cast members have crashed and burned. we need to tally: how many marriages flamed out? how many arrests? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:36 am flag
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don't forget the 2 suicides! [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:47 am flag
[ - ] brooklyn moms: can you recommend a good gym or dance class for my almost 3 year old dd? 3 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:07 am flag
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my almost 3yo loves her ballet and gym classes at ny kids club and little gym. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:09 am flag
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thanks! [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:18 am flag
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i don't now about age 3, but my first grader loves her dance class at mark morris dance school. and bax has excellent movement and music classes for preschoolers. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:35 am flag
[ - ] best apps for white noise/tranquil sleep sounds? and is it bad to leave your phone on all night playing these sounds? 2 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:07 am flag
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op: bad for your phone i mean, not bad for sleep quality. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:14 am flag
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mobile phones = radiation, don't have near your bed. a cd player or even a radio is much safer and these days you can usually program to run as much or little as you need. you can create your own white noise by switching to am radio, playing on low on the static [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:29 am flag
[ - ] i posted about being unhinged and thinking we will divorce. dh put in down payment on apartment but my name is co-owner and we only got the loan based on my excellent work history for past 5 yrs when he made nothing or 15-45k. i think i could make the mortgage and maint on house but not with the nanny also. he can do it easily based on family and premarital assets and thinks i will have to leave the apartment and he will raise dc with the nanny. it is excellent ps6/ps 290 and super easy for me to drop off and pick up as opposed to what i could rent. do you think he would get the apartment since i put almost no money into it? 5 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:01 am flag
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nope. what other assets? keep a diary of who is taking care of the dc and when. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:03 am flag
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op: thanks. he has pre-marital assets and and i have none. nanny takes care of dc all day while we work. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:16 am flag
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how old is dc? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:19 am flag
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op: 2 [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:36 am flag
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op: you mean when he is traveling and what time and dates i get home to take care of dc and let nanny off early and take him to a class and the park? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:37 am flag
[ - ] what is it with ub that people can't manage an existence of parenting 24/7? 3 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:01 am flag
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it is just unnecessary. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:01 am flag
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i don't understand the question. who thinks parenting isn't a 24/7 gig? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:08 am flag
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it is but you can go to work and look up some classes and do stuff like that. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:38 am flag
[ - ] my 4 yo has the funniest dress sense: she walked me to buy her gymnastics shorts and a cropped top. what do you think? she would pair it with light up shoes. 10 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:51 am flag
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need to mentioned that i and her older sister have a very classic dress sense. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:52 am flag
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all 4 year olds have a funny dress sense. because they're 4. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:52 am flag
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i never heard of a 4 yo wanting a cropped top! her sister was always dressed in jacadi dresses! and she loved it! [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:53 am flag
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cropped tops are inappropriate. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:08 am flag
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op. i would never buy it. she saw someone in the playground wearing one. i can't believe that a child of mine would want to get a cropped top. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:09 am flag
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esl? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:00 am flag
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can you rephrase it in proper english? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:01 am flag
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if you meant wanted instead of walked, then it's perfect english, and this person is just trolling you [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:09 am flag
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op here - she wanted me to buy ... it's an autocorrect typo. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:09 am flag
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really boring [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:05 am flag
[ - ] major budget cuts and lifestyle change. no budget for botox or fillers. what do you think about retin-a? please suggest alternatives for anti aging. 9 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:49 am flag
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c serum in the morning (a good one like skinceuticals or cellex-c) and a retinol at night. physical sunscreen during the day. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:51 am flag
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c-serum is a waste. retin a, tretinoin, or retinol at night are great and sunscreen during the day. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:22 am flag
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^or tazorac or diffinin. they all do the same thing. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:23 am flag
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does it matter what retinol? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:24 am flag
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i didn't notice any difference with retin-a. not even peeling or flaking. what it is supposed to do (exfoliate) is totally different from what botox does (temporarily paralyzes the muscles) and fillers do. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:51 am flag
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maybe you should upgrade to tazorac [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:54 am flag
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frankly, i don't really need it. i have very good skin to begin with. i guess i don't need additional exfoliation because even the strongest stuff does nothing to exfoliate. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:59 am flag
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home chemical peels. super easy and effective. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:07 am flag
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i love retin-a. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:09 am flag
[ - ] islam is going to be second largest religion in us. it will replace judaism from its second spot. why cant we do anything to stop them from breeding like roaches? 8 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:43 am flag
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rude [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:59 am flag
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it's not the breeding rate which is the problem; it's mass-immigration. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:01 am flag
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its likely both [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:11 am flag
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jew is 2%, muslim 1% currently. who cares if they switch places, still a pittance as compared with the rest [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:02 am flag
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if islam was replaced with black people would be offended. these are bigoted comments [ reply | more ]
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mormons have the most children, are they also roaches? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:07 am flag
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can we start with stopping your from breeding? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:39 am flag
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all religions are destructive are gross. thinking your people are superior because your magic sky god is the right one is a closed minded and dangerous belief. one religion replacing another isn't a concern since no religion is better than another. all of them promote closed mindedness and lack of critical thinking and the scientific method. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:40 am flag
[ - ] everything about this woman is the worst: http://deadspin.com/is-this-espn-reporter-britt-mchenry-berating-a-parking-1698248529 43 replies [ reply | watch | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:41 am flag
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she should be fired. [ reply | more ]
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+1000 [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:05 am flag
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np: no way -- i read the article. apparently that tow company is notorious for towing cars illegally and all kinds of other sleazy things. now i support towing of cars who really are in no-parking spots, but this guys seem problematic and crooks. their reviews from the last year read like one slimy thing after another. that doesn't excuse her being that mean, and she was right to apologize, but sometimes we all lose it when others are doing something very wrong with impunity. all she did was say very rude words, she didn't hit or hurt anyone. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:23 am flag
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which towing company is it? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:27 am flag
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there was a link to all the reviews of it on yelp. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:28 am flag
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you don't think that insulting someone's appearance, job and intelligence didn't hurt someone? you are completely delusional. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:33 am flag
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people do that on ub all the time! they are constantly insulting other people's intelligence. in fact, you just insulted me! but to answer your question, yes, if you mean "hurt someone's feelings". she was rude and said inappropriate things, no doubt about it. but really, who hasn't at some point in their life? or maybe you are just perfect. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:36 am flag
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i certainly don't call people fat and comment on their broken teeth or whatever like she did! what she did was beyond the pale. she'll be fired. mark my words. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:42 am flag
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she looks like a porn star [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:44 am flag
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+ bad hair [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:57 am flag
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i hate cheap blond dyes. why don't people with decent salaries get decent highlights? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:01 am flag
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sadly, i think the cheap blonde look is what she's going for. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:05 am flag
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wow she is just like a ub troll [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:45 am flag
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she definitely fits the description of a ub b!tch!. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:52 am flag
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"lose some weight, baby girl" [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:54 am flag
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lol! i know it was awful, but i had to laugh about her creative insults. what a witch! [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:55 am flag
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she should have called her baby caca with eyes and ears (insult of choice in my dd's preschool). [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 02:56 am flag
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uh no. have you ever been towed? these tow companies run a complete racket. she said some inappropriate things in a moment of anger, but it was justified anger and hardly worth losing a job over. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:12 am flag
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ok troll [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:13 am flag
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i'm not trolling. these companies are actually the scum of the earth. i'm not saying she was right, but i understand. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:15 am flag
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np above: i just posted the same thing. i don't think all towing companies are bad, but the yelp reviews show that this one was notoriously bad. she was wrong and she apologized as she should, but the "crime" of getting mad at someone and saying rude things is not like hurting someone. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:24 am flag
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who would ever give a towing company a positive review? come on! [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:26 am flag
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i think it takes a certain type of sleaziness for someone to write a bad review. and so many! they apparently towed a car with a child in it or something at one point. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:29 am flag
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what is the yelp link? [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:36 am flag
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are you a mean girl, too? on what planet is it okay to start insulting someone's intelligence and appearance because you find yourself in a moment of anger? she should be fired. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:16 am flag
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and she was prob parked illegally, so it's not something that just happened to her [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:19 am flag
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it was edited to only show her side. it would be very interesting to see the responses by the employee. i doubt she started getting mad just because she was paying her fine. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:25 am flag
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there is a response from the employee. it said her car was towed because it was in the parking lot of a restaurant 2 hours after the restaurant closed. that lot was for restaurant patrons only. sounds like a legitimate tow. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:44 am flag
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it is so bizarre to me that you think she ought to be fired over her losing her temper. people make mistakes constantly. the only difference is now they're being recorded. have tolerance. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:30 am flag
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i know -- who is so perfect that they have never lost it and said something immature and rude? in the scheme of things, it wasn't as if she was screaming in the clerk's face [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:34 am flag
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i've definitely never treated a minimum wage worker like this. so rude [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:38 am flag
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you should read their reviews. this is not some helpless, innocent victim. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:47 am flag
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you all think she looks bad? i think she is gorgeous. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:24 am flag
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an ugly soul makes an ugly person. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:27 am flag
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agreed. not condoning her behavior (which i actually don't know much about-- but it sounds pretty bad based on the article). but physically, she is very hot. perhaps in a sorority girl way, but i still think that she is objectively attractive (if only from the outside) [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:30 am flag
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her style is nokd. cheesy midwest style that belongs on the bachelor [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:36 am flag
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np: what is "cheesy midwest style?" [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:43 am flag
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it's like the women on the bachelor. not sophisticated, good style.. just easy to get noticed bleach blonde hair, big boobs, tan, lipgloss, and bright, cheap looking clothes [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:45 am flag
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the reactionary response to something i don't like being "you should get fired and lose your livelihood" could not be more misguided. punishment should match the crime.. and really, who hasn't acted out in their life? you all sound like a bunch of living saints over here. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:32 am flag
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well, she's revealed a very unflattering side of herself, and they don't necessarily want her representing their company. can't blame them [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:40 am flag
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americans love to get fired up about the moral foibles of public figures. very american world view. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:42 am flag
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i don't go around spewing such atrocities at random people (the person behind the counter didn't tow the car herself). [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:42 am flag
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i agree. especially the women on ub who all of a sudden act holier than thou. she was inappropriate, but not enough to fire her over it. [ reply | more ]
general topics 04.17.15, 03:47 am flag
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